Self Love: I love You

The difference between being determined and self destructive, is knowing when to move on from what you thought was a good idea. Love yourself enough to stop the pain. This all starts by knowing there is only one (1) person "who you control" that can love you the exact way you want and need and that is you.

Unpretty (Not)

TLC was way ahead of their time, and right on time at the same time. (SOAP BOX ALERT)

(TLC's-Unpretty) means just as much today as it did then. No one, and I mean no one person (not even yourself) should be allowed to make you feel less than great!!! No matter what or who you are, or what you own, drive, wear, or where you work being the greatness that God created you to be is up to you. Do not let anyone take that task away from you.

Never insecure until I met you (Hmm I'll address that, see last 2 lines of this paragraph)
Now I'm bein' stupid (Well only cause I listened to you)
I used to be so cute fly to me (sorry I had to remix this I am dude)
Just a little bit skinny (This part is true)
Why do I look to all these things? (since I don't know I will stop)
To keep you happy (not good enough)
Maybe get rid of you
And then I'll get back to me (now we're talking)

You dont need an excuse to be pretty

Omg! I need to get on my soapbox for a second or two. I need your undivided attention.

Do I have it?

O.K.

Ladies, you do not need an excuse provided from an external source to be pretty, sexy, dolled up, or any other way to say the inner Diva that you are.

If I hear one more of you say, I would love to wear dresses, and look great on a daily basis, but it would be too much, I am going to scream.

You are beautiful if someone says its alright for you to show it or not, and since you know that you are free to be that way on a daily basis.

Do not get me wrong, I understand that all situations do not call for DVF, or Marc Jacobs, yet I understand that you don't have to be invited to the red carpet to feel free to wear a nice dress.

My friend Claire over at the Fashion Bomb wrote about the various ways to do the dress last week check it out.

You know my stance on the topic, but I am eager to hear what you have to say, because my feelings could be the minority.

If you decide that I am right, and you want to show your stuff check out our gallery and pick you out something nice. If you need help in ordering check here.